Heavenly Father I don't know my coming and goings and I am confused about what I should be doing and what I should say in many situations.  I feel sure about what I feel and trust it sometimes but even then I later regret my words.  Help me Lord as I strive to embrace all that is good in people and all goodness that surrounds me.  I try to do all things that seem like a good decision and I wonder if you would approve or disapprove and begin to doubt my progress.  I long to be pleasing unto thee as I pursue things in life that seem to make sense and are of wisdom.  I doubt my perception and understanding of others for I am being corrected often by their living example.  I also judge others instantly and at their first offense and my thoughts  lead me to sin against thee Father.  Help me to remember their faults are my faults and my strength are others strength also for we are all in training to be like unto thee that I do not go down with pride as satan.  Thou has given each  soul thy unmerited gifts that we can be of blessing and help unto our selves and to others but at times I get carried away in my own needs and pursuits that I become blind and insensitive to needs of thy people.  Heavenly Father help me to serve as you do, see others through your eyes and understanding through your heart.  My tendency to condemn myself also makes life seems unbearable at times.  Please remove my dark and negative tendencies and remove all that offends thee in thy sight Lord.  My ways are tiring and trying Lord even though it is my chosen ways but thou knowest me better than I know myself so let thy ways be done and let thy will be fulfilled in me over all that I may plan or desire in my heart.  I do not know all your ways in my heart even though I read of thy words Lord.  Help me to be changed and molded by your character, your wisdom, and your grace Father.  My everlasting longing is for you and to be saturated by thy holy spirit in my heart.  Change my heart Father that I may be pleasing in thy sight this day.